As I approach my first Valentines day as an (almost) LBS, I am perplexed about what to do and was wondering what the rest of you are planning, or have handled it in the past? I suppose the exact details of your sitch make a difference, in a nutshell we have been in "limbo" since I got the ILYBNILWY speech about 5 months ago. She says she doesn't know if she wants a divorce or not but isn't willing to work on the marriage right now. Hence, limbo ensues. Basically she travels so much with her new job that she's asked to just put the marriage on the shelf until the travel slows down in late Spring. So what have those of you in similar sitch's done...or plan to do this year...regarding Valentines Day? My first thought is no romance = no acknowledgement...what meaning (or message) would a gift have to an almost WAW? Thoughts?
