No good. Well definitely take some time to cool down. Maybe try to go ahead with the meeting tomorrow. It is possible for him to have a change of heart in this week (stretching a bit), but see what he has to say tomorrow. Luckily for you, you have your backup if he tries the spiel about no OW for weeks (Maybe just show him the CC statement for proof. It seems a little less obtrusive then admitting to spying on his AIM - mail is right there in the open - no passwords required). You have the power and you have the control about where the relationship goes and if he comes home or not. Hear him out and let him defend his case about why he should come home, and if you're not convinced about his change or the possilility of his change, then he'll have been given that chance and you'll have your answer. In addition, you still need to discuss the items you listed before, so at the very least, if you can keep the meeting calm, productive, and business like, you can get some of those issues resolved. But definitely, definitely cool down first...we all have been guilty of saying the things we either regret or that are just not helpful in the the heat of our anger.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
