dburt, Thank you, what you've said makes perfect since. And I understand about the friends just trying to support me. However, I am nervous about the OWH response. I know what they are doing is wrong, but it does not deserve any violent outcome, and that is my worry. I still plan on figuring out a way to tell OWH, just not sure if an anonymous letter is the right thing or not.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10