dburt,
Thank you, what you've said makes perfect since. And I understand about the friends just trying to support me. However, I am nervous about the OWH response. I know what they are doing is wrong, but it does not deserve any violent outcome, and that is my worry. I still plan on figuring out a way to tell OWH, just not sure if an anonymous letter is the right thing or not.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10