but what if anything can i do to increase the odds, or move on.
You move on. It fits both criteria.
THIS IS KEY TO UNDERSTAND...MOVING ON IS USUALLY THE ROUTE TO A RECONCILIATON IF THERE IS ONE...AND YET IT'S ALSO MANDATORY IF NO RECON TAKES PLACE...SO YOU DO IT....
Do not text/email/call him about getting dinner this week. Let it go. Wait another week or so then contact him about discussing taxes. That way it's not pursuing on a R level, it's simply a business meeting. And it shows that you're not sitting around waiting for his response to make plans. Don't do that! Make some other weekend plans now so if he does get in touch it will have to work around your schedule.
"AMEN" TO THIS POST.... j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016