Just scared of what comes next!

[kissak]

Thanks to both of you. Yes, we have been dating since October. We both knew that moving back in right away wouldnt work for us...been there and done that. We are also spending lots of time together with the kids too. The good thing is he is recognizing alot of his issues in counseling. I have thought about mentioning MC with him. We did it in the beginning for a month or so when he first left, but at that time his heart werent in it...he was doing it for me. But I think he may be open to it now. He already knows he has to earn my trust. That is a subject that has been discussed many times.

But the best thing I know to do is to take it nice and slow, which I think is best, in the past we were always too quick at trying to work things out and it never worked.

I also know the OW was only a symptom of his problems, but I believe he is working on that in counseling.

Also, the amount of debt that we have both gotten ourselves into over the last 3 years trying to live on our own is very troubling to both of us. That is something we will also have to figure out how to work through.

Ugh, so much work, but I believe so worth it in the end whether it works out or not.