I agree with much of what has been said. I think if Kalni's C can get her H to 'man up' and joing Kalni at working at their m there is huge hope for this working.

It's just it does take TWO to make a M work at the end of the day.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength