H is apartment hunting today

[trytryagain]

also, i want some advice on that letter my mom sent my H. i SHOULD intercept that in the mail, right? should i at least tell him it's coming in case he checks the mail before i get a chance? i could ask him not to open it...thoughts??

the letter from my mom is one that my H wrote my mom in 2008 after a near separation between the 2 of us. my mom sent it along with a note saying, "guess you didn't mean this. you wrote this to me 18 months ago." she told me today she feels the need to tell my H how SHE'S feeling. (since she's seen me go through this with him once before, she's pretty fed up and firey, as you can imagine)