Did he see YOU look at him? I hope so. I think I probably would have even waved, so he knew it for sure. and just acted like you didn't care, and it sounds like you didn't anyways.
Yes I believe we made brief eye contact and he ran out.
Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
yes, that mgf is crazy, but I agree, it was just child-like behavior. but, you've seen the emails, so what would you expect!?! lol
I would expect nothing less. I was talking to my first exh yesterday about some random kid stuff and he asked how things were going with exh. I told him what happened with MGF and he just shook his head and said exh better wake up as this girl can really ruin alot of things with baby if he allows her to keep it up.
I also agree he is too pathetic to ditch her completely now. Some other pathetic woman will have to emerge from the swamp for him to move on. He needs her attention right now.
Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
when is your next workout class? do you have any cool plans this week?
Next kickboxing is Thursday. We have a home wrestling match tonight and some other baby related stuff going on. Semi busy week so that is great!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I'm sure he felt stupid that he was at the store when he told you he was working. Did he see YOU look at him? I hope so. I think I probably would have even waved, so he knew it for sure. and just acted like you didn't care, and it sounds like you didn't anyways.
But if she TRULY didn't care, why would she wave?
Drama ..........
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.
Never know when one of those emails might touch him and change him. God works in mysterious ways.
So do DataMiners.
What is a DataMiner?
Originally Posted By: Drew
But if she TRULY didn't care, why would she wave?
It all happened so fast I really didn't have time to react. I figured if we ran into eachother I would have said Hi or whatever. I wouldn't have brought up the fact that this was visit time, he was supposed to be working, and here he is shopping. He is only hurting himself with baby if he chooses not to come.
Baby just loves her Kindermusik class. It is so fun to see her laughing and smiling. When I think about it I really am blessed. I have 4 kids that love me and are wonderful. I spend 24/7 with baby and she makes me so happy. I wouldn't trade it for any relationship with anyone else.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
SO2, try to get over to my thread - I found a few articles that were REALLY helpful to me, and they might be for you, too.
Don't waste time wondering what he is doing, what he is thinking- he and his crew are just crazy. Chalk it all up to that and just concentrate on you and the baby.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I am not sure why you feel sick over what other people do that have nothing to do with you. You need to seriously develop an IDGAF attitude. Get the t-shirt.
what Kerry said!!....seriously, DETACH...have you tried? Do you think if you stay in that area, your present efforts at detachment are sufficient? I don't. So move, or detach, or go insane...your choice. As for the baby's r with x h, don't worry so much about her taking "His side"...Why? B/C She needs to know two people love her. Flawed people, but still, people who love HER...nothing else matters as much. Don't think for a minute that she wont' know, eventually, who meets her needs and who puts their own needs in front of hers. Just be there for her and leave the rest up to God. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Baby just loves her Kindermusik class. It is so fun to see her laughing and smiling. When I think about it I really am blessed. I have 4 kids that love me and are wonderful. I spend 24/7 with baby and she makes me so happy. I wouldn't trade it for any relationship with anyone else.
sounds like your doing really good today!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
I was doing better yesterday. Much better. Exh sent a text asking how her music class was and if we were home. I told him it was really fun and we had just left. Wasn't his day anyway. Later he sent one asking how wrestling was. I didn't respond.
FB sucks sometimes. I love it to keep some social connection to friends and people I haven't seen in awhile but things pop up that you cannot control. I have a mutual friend that is also friends with MGF. They are hanging out alot now I just figured out. Anyway my friend was talking about how hard it is to be a single mom! I was laughing to myself as she has 3 kids that go with their dad 3 or 4 days a week. She has no idea. Anyway MGF was chiming in with comments like she has any idea either...she has a husband and a boyfriend! Then she made a comment "But that makes my time with my awesome and sweet boyfriend special" Whatever. Unfriended my friend.
Today my mom is going to watch baby for an hour so I can study a bit. She is 88 years old so long time is really hard on my mom, but I am thankful she helps.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
