Just love the icecream manouvre its fab! Just jealous its too cold over here in the UK to indulge in icecream lol!
Right stop beating yourself and remember if I hadnt been a plonker too I wouldnt be here telling you how not to do it! Believe me I let a dear sweet man get so unhappy he walked and I never noticed, not something Im proud of.
The 5lls is the five love languages by Gary Chapman we all have different ones, the theory is that we all have love tanks and when they are depleted that leads to us feeling unloved, unwanted and thats when we start to look elsewhere. It not one you have to hide infact once you have read and done the quiz for you, later you can ask your W to do her quiz too on the grounds that its a tool that can help makes things better. Both mine and H's LL's were physical touch and words of affirmation. My H is a sucker for a cuddle and letting him know I appreciate what he has done instead of taking it for granted certainly has filled his love tanks. In fact H and I had quite a giggle doing it together as yes they can what you put too hint hint I'd like mine filled too! But its like all things dont over do it at first add a few slowly but surely as otherwise she will just run the bucket as it will appear twee! Keep going your like a sponge at the moment keep slurping all the info up!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!