Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Thanks - need to think about that. I've never really looked at it from that angle before. My "structure" at home has gotten much worse since I carry the burden of almost everything these days. I've learned to do it all by having the structure, but maybe that is driving controlling behavior which I do not want.

Which reminds me of another classic kid line last night: D8 says to mom "your home early", W says "not really that early" and D8 says "yes it is you made it home before dinner"