I don't owe him anything and I don't care if he needs to ruin his life, he's not going to ruin mine too. I'm a good person and a great catch for someone who deserves me. I don't care anymore if he divorces me - his life is going to be miserable until he deals with his issues. The funny thing I realized this weekend... he feels I deserve a better husband (he's said that several times)
When he says that. You agree.
And alway be cival. Nothing more nothing less.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!