I've hit a wall.. Now what?

[talia]

SO I got an email yesterday asking me to set a time to meet to "figure out the rest of this". Funny thing about it - the suggested dates are toward the middle/end of Feb. So much for H's sense of urgency and need to complete this process RIGHT NOW. The email was chatty and light - very unsual for him but par for the course since Jan 1. Its a change... just not sure what it means (if anything). Its a big change from how he was early on all the way up to Thanksgiving. I'm not really sure what to do with "halfway pleasant" H, I'm only skilled at dealing with "Pain in the Ass" H. Now I have to find a whole new set of people skills! I find myself wanting to be bitchy back - but also realizing if this is his twisted way of reaching out I need to be careful. I doubt thats the case - but its a huge change. There seems to be a very fine line between protecting myself emotionally and moving forward with my life; and being inviting enough for him to know that I'd like to repair this.

It seems I should have stayed in Gymnastics earlier in life - The balance beam seems to be my new talent......

Anyone have thoughts? 2 x 4 's? Something?