How do I expose the affair

[chatterbug]

Wanna know what to do.

1. Secure your finances. Make sure you have enough money to cover yourself the next short while.
2. Pack his over night bag.
3. When he comes home you expose the affair to him. You tell him that it ends now you will not have a 3rd party in your marriage. If he hesitates or lies or asks for proof. You bring out his over night bag and you open the front door and you place it there and you tell him to go be with his affair as your marriage is over. You do not tell him how you know, or what you are going to do. He gets to make a choice right there and then.
4. Then you walk away.
5. You then call the doctor and book your std tests and you go get some sleeping pills and anti-depressions if you need it.
6. You wait one day.
7. You call the OMW and expose
8. You call yours and his parents and expose
9. You call your best friend of the marriage who will put pressure on him and you expose.
10. If its work affair you expose to HR.
11. You do not back down or offer any excuses for your actions.
12. Do not back down, Do not accept blame. He is the one who has stepped out of the marriage. You are protecting yourself and your marriage. Your actions are right. His actions are wrong.
13. Stay civil. Do not get angry. Express your thoughts through actions.

You are deploying the stick of Plan A.
Exposing adultery where it matters most. Exposure that takes the form of a swift and sudden unexpected tsunami of truth.

Not appologizing for exposure or speaking the truth in a kind yet direct way.

Directly communicating the hurt and devastation that the affair has caused.

Not accepting blame for the infidel's choice to become adulterous.

Let the consequences of adultery and infidelity fall freely upon the heads of the adulterous.

Establishing boundaries that disallow the affair to effect children of the marriage, financal security of the marriage, and otherwise ruin innocent bystanders.

Standing up to infidelity as a beast that must be slayed for the good of the family.



IF HE SAYS HE WILL STOP.

HERE IS WHAT YOU TELL HIM.

No contact with OP. 100% Tranparancy. NC Letter. And that you need time to think if you want to continue the marriage. If he wants to continue the marriage he will show you via his actions.

THEN

You contact OP'W and tell her.