Well since I seem to be the only one responding I do not think you are a loser nor have I ever called you that. I have been with you on this board since day one and I am well aware of your entire story, what you post here and what you don't post here, because I have lived it and still am living it to some extent.
Oh I just realized I did change my name, TMW, this is Sara (NNP).
You are right, no one has to live with your decisions but you.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
