Hopeless feelings

[Young at Heart]

.....I really do need to expose the A;

.....however I do want to do it correctly. This is where I need everyone’s help. Should I really tell the OW’s H first?

....My thinking behind giving my H the warning of having OW tell her own H was to make them sweat and worry about what’s going to happen.

.....I’m not sure if that is the right thing to do or not.

Words are important and have a lasting impact. Re-read what you have posted and think about what you are saying and what people are telling you.

....I really do need to expose the A;

Why and what will you loose if you don't expose things tonight?

....My thinking behind giving my H the warning of having OW tell her own H was to make them sweat and worry about what’s going to happen.

So in your own words you want a degree of revenge. There is an old saying and that is that "...revenge is a meal best served cold." What is getting revenge tonight going to do that will help your son or daughter have a better tomorrow? Think about that question before you have an extended discussion with her husband tonight.

Good luck.