Don't know where to post this.

[MichelleLT]

You don't have to date to get her attention. Doing things on your own, with friends, being unavailable to her at times, detaching, etc. will all DEMONSTRATE through ACTION that you are getting your own life and probably scare her that you are going to move on.

When the WAS gets scared that you are moving on, they often try to reel you back in, whether they have made up their mind to R or are just trying to keep their options open. They do that by being nice, offering sex, whatever works / has worked in the past to get back on your good side.

You need to be stronger. Give her the space and time to work on her issues. You have to let her do it herself. You have to let her grow up.