Yep that made me laugh, and it did hurt a little. But not as much as sneezing does!
Jeff, you are close but not quite there. I do acknowledge I should have gone thermonuclear back then. I don't think it means I don't have a right to be angry now, but it just feels weird.
Like I waited so long it seems strange to just let it all out now. But, what else can I do? This pent-up frustration is occupying my mind more all the time. I don't get a whole lot done at work, at home I am better b/c I pick a specific job (organize files, organize the kitchen) and I throw myself into it so I don't think about anything else...