Here's the link:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1890841&page=5

His discovery starts about page 5 of his thread.

Hope that helps. MB, please listen carefully: unlike your DBing efforts past, and also again going forward, this moment (affair discovery, and how you react to it immediately following), YOU ONLY GET ONE CHANCE AT. Doing it correctly doesn't guarantee you'll end the affair and get your spouse back, but do it INcorrectly, and everything will be 500% more difficult going forward.

Puppy