(((((BobbiJo)))))

You know me well enough to know I don't swing the 2x4 very often... but I think you had better duck!

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Those are all things I need to do, and they are things I needed to do 2+ years ago, if not 7 years ago when he first had an affair!


You still need to do those things! The fact that you would have been well served to do them earlier doesn't make them any less valid! I hope you are not saying that because you let him get away with disrespecting you, and treating you this way for years, you should continue to allow it! Because if that's what you are saying, I may just have to buy a down coat and head for Iowa! And I'll be looking for something a bit heftier than a 2x4!

Sorry you hurt yourself! Try to let it heal... Don't get yourself hurt worse trying to push it!