Yes - understood. I know that I have to let go of that anger. Its just good to know what you're feeling is normal I guess. She has still not given me the Legal Separation papers yet - been three weeks since she told me she was giving them to me "any day". Maybe they do take awhile to get written up - we'll see. Lawyer told me I'm not legally required to answer them if I dont want to - I can ignore them if I choose. Obviously will wait to see if she gives them to me, but assuming she does, I am still wondering what the best plan is - ignore, have lawyer modify, fight, etc. Probably no right answer, but I'm open for suggestions if anyone is reading this.
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010