Yeah, things seem ok. Our lives are still tough b/c our little one is still having the fever problems. I was puked on yesterday and the the kitchen floor got it today. SO lack or sleep, frustration, etc. We've been tracking the fevers and ironically when my son is actually sick with something- strep, cold, etc. his fevers are not as high and he is not as sick. Thinking of following up with the Immunologist and Inf. Dx doctor we saw this summer at the Children's Hospital since the rheumatologist is out of ideas and just moving to treatment options. I would rather know what is going on. The fevers of concern seem cyclic and somethings have been ruled out and autoimmune issues are a concern now.
My older one feels neglected at times and I feel bad for that. He pretends to be sick for attention and I feel bad calling him on it. "No, you have to go to school" but I make attends to give him lots of love and attention too.
So, our lives are not ideal for GALing and focusing on the marriage at times but the older my son gets the easier it will be. I do feel trapped at home A LOT. I feel like a make plans only to cancel them. Living vicariously though the internet-hehe.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)