Running out of time.

[Cie la vie]

My W and OM1 sent/received 123 the night before I found out.

How dare your WAW one up my WAW. This is unacceptable.

It will be interesting to see how the OMen sitch plays out. I probably won't have any insight on what is developing moving forward. The W and I said goodbye this morning. I initiate a hug and little kiss and told her to be safe. She welled up and I went to work. The moving truck was out front as I left. She'll be at her new apartment tonight and off to the races with her new life.

It was a sad moment and I drove to work with a heavy heart. I honestly don't know what she is feeling inside, is it saddness or happiness? Probably a little of both I guess. Not sure what the future holds but I'm moving forward with the attitude that we will be offically divorced within six months.

I did get one last peek in her phone and it was a simple continuance of the previous days, sappy childish banter. The lack of any evidence of communication with OM1 was very interesting. Up until the last few days they have been in constant contact with eachother. It is possible that he is on a business trip and their normal lines of communication are unavailable. I would be surprised if they had severed ties, however, the heavy pursuit of OM2 may suggest otherwise. I guess I'll never really know the answer.

On the positive side I get to reestablish myself in the master bedroom with the king bed etc. I'm looking forward to more comfortable living quarters. I plan on focusing on the positive and minimizing the negatives. This is obviously a tall order but an absolute requirement with moving forward, being happy and not drifting into a depressive state. I think we all at the outset of our sitches are struck with a case of situational depression and we either emerge from that or it can become a serious issue. I feel I emerged from this sometime ago, however, it lurks around the corner waiting to pop in if we don't stay strong.

I wouldn't be surprised if she loses interest in the kids

I've already seen some signs of this. Did your W's lack of interest in the kids gain speed when she moved out? I believe that is a real possibiility here.

The coming weeks will be telling as we proceed with our parenting plan. My mother and her husband are coming down to celebrate a belated B-day with the kids this weekend. The W doesn't know this and will be to busy with OM2 to care.

Sounds like you are straped in and already hitting some pretty good hills on the this rollercoaster. IMHO, you are doing great and if you love your wife from a distance, you will get her back one day.

My close friends and family feel like I am handling everything about as well as possible. And of course I do love my W and want her to be happy and in my opinion her best chance at true happiness is with our family whole again. Time will tell.