Hopeless feelings

[motherof3]

dburt is right. Say nothing yet. You are in control of things now, your H just doesn't know it yet. And that is okay.

I can't offer advise with busting an A. But go search for posts that Puppy Dog Tails makes. He is not on the boards much anymore. I am at work right now and don't have time to help in your search for his posts, but I can help out later tonight.

Again, until others weigh in, do not and I repeat do not say anything to your H.

Mo3