Still no word from my H even though when he left the other night, he asked if he could call. He is still avoiding.
Last week my H said he was going to call our C and get into to see him right away, I told him he could just take our regularly scheduled appointment which is tomorrow night. He said he would take the appointment. I called the C to let him know my H will be coming, not me. I am have been debating whether or not I should contact my H to see if he still plans on going but I have to let it go. If he doesn't show, that will tell me that he still isn't ready to address his issues...and if he isn't, that just confirms the necessity for me to move forward without him.
OP-I am sure it is the depression that keeps him away but I am so tired of the reasons and excuses. I have always asked my H to fight for us and he has never really been able to. If he knows he is depressed then I would think he would want to work on that. Maybe I just don't understand depression well enough.
tf-I thought I had done so much damage control over the last 3 years that there wasn't that much damage for my H to face...but I am not him and you are right, it can't be easy.
forward-I thought my H was getting pretty close to being fully baked. I guess he was just browning on the edges and still undercooked on the inside.
