I might mention that I and others have noticed that my W acts like two totally different people.
At times she is a responsible adult, good mother, and loving wife.
Other times she is selfish, hateful, neglectful mother, and just generally acting the same as she did when she was 14.
I have heard that when a person is abused or sexually assaulted that part of their brain stops developing and stays at that date.
Could this be true?
She was sodomized at 14 and when she is acting as if she is 14 she uses a combination of slang from when we were 14 and slang my s12 and his friends use. She dresses and carries herself as if she was 14 or so. She also formulates thoughts and sentences in the manner of a kid. This confuses me.
One day complete childish behavior and the next she is a responsible adult.
It is like I am dealing with a slight split personality. Has anyone else had to deal with this?
Me 33 WAW 32 S12 S4 S2 M12 T14 Not wanting to ever give up.
