Sorry you got in a fight man, hope all is smoothed over now.
I think the only way to find out what is going on with your kids is to take charge of that, and find out. Talk to them, talk their teachers, talk to there friends, etc.
You can't change what she does, only what you do, and what you own...
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."