We can keep our side of the house clean, and that's it.
STBX may shovel mud and sh*t against the siding, and block the door, and occasionally break a window, steal some mail, and take some of the paychecks home, but if I keep cleaning up because we like MY house clean, and fix the window because I don't want a broken window on MY house.
Those are things I can fix and react to for what I want. I could retaliate, but then it will just escalate into all out war. I trust that in the end, when I do for my d9 and me what is right, that all will work out, and I will be happy and healthy.
I know the metaphor's are different across postings and people, but it all comes down to the same answers for most everyone. The road to those answers are different, and sometimes take longer for some to reach, but the end point is the same.....
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
