Well... things seem to get incredibly worse for STBXH... he is in major trouble and it is legal and I can't even talk about it until the D is final. I pray my kdis will never find these things out. Of course he is completly innocent and everyone is out to get him. God, I just wish he could find some of himself somewhere to save himself.
It's very sad to watch a once wonderful, upstanding person sink into such despair, sadness, and misery. He's truly lost everything.... maybe even a 20 year career as a military officer. Please pray that this wont' be the case. It may be the final straw for him. I can't help him and that leaves me feeling sad for him.
FFG is still wonderful...upon venting to him about some new developments I sent him an email apologizing for dumping it one him and he sent me an email and part of what he said was this:
Don't worry about sharing what you're going through. I happily take you and the kids and whatever you come with. I will share any part of my life with you too-good or bad.
He's a good apple so far.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too