I talked to STBX yesterday. Let's just say it didn't go well, but we've agreed that I will go to the house Saturday and collect some furniture and personal items that are on the 'List'. He's working a second job to make ends meet. I'm still on disability, but can return to modified duty as soon as tomorrow, or more likely, early next week. Custody of S16 and D13 will be decided by the Judge. So sad. Our brief phone convo ended with me saying, "See you in court, babe" and hanging up on him. He will fight me to the end for custody. Meanwhile, I am settling into my new place. Not much to settle, a couple of plates, cups, and a bed. Couple of file drawers, and my laptop. It's kinda like camping. With nicer chairs.