Yes it does. This is why we have to detach. It is to protect ourselves as well as to give him space. It is the most important thing to learn about DB'ing
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How do I do this?
Next after the detaching we make goals for ourselves. Engage in GAL activities. We have to worry about making ourselves happy. Only we can make ourselves happy. It is not your H job to make you happy. It is your job! You have to work on this. You don't tell him what you are doing. You look in the mirror and make changes for you. If they are real then he will notice. There are no tricks only lots of hard work.
