<<then why do you always wind up sharing things with me when you feel your lowest????>>
because he can....simple as that....you give him the opportunity to...you make yourself available. You guys are in contact way more than you should be....i guess the no contact rule from that book i suggested is not working. We all read books or get counselling and we tend to pick and choose what we are most comfortable with...for instance, one of the things your counsellor said last week (and i am paraphrasing) is that you should put off the divorce talk. Why? because she wants you to avoid contact. That sounded good to you...why because you do not want a divorce...not becasue you do not want contact. So in one week you have elevated your discussions as you so aptly describe on these last few posts. You guys are texting or talking about some very personal issues.....his issues....i am not sure your C will be very happy. No contact BBJ is the way to go....you need to distance yourself form him...he is poisoning you on a regular basis. I am sorry you allow it to happen over and over again....
