Interesting turn of events this week. I have been NC for almost a week now and even leave the home if he is dropping off roommate after work. Zero contact! Since that time, H has become noticeably irratable at work (according to best friend and also roommate who is "friends" with H) while before he was acting as though everything was fine in his world, meanwhile lamenting to me about life. H was even caught speaking badly about roommate which is very odd because they are "friends". I watch what I say around roommate, yet roommate reports the same stories back to me as my best friend about H and what he is up to these days in the workplace and around OW. My best friend is HR manager at H's office and they have been cordial to one another since the beginning of the "bomb", although H knows how close best friend and I are and she knows EVERYTHING. They have continued to greet each other with "hello"'s and even joked around about neutral topics still. Yesterday, best friend walked into the office H shares with a few other gentlemen and said hello to him. H got up from his desk, looked at her, and walked out without saying a word as to noticeably snub her. This has never happened before and H has always been great friends with her and even introduced she and I. H office is buzzing about H's affair and has been for about a month now and I have even been asked out by some guys in his office and old "friends" of his. The secret is out and H has been alienated since this all came out from his previous friends. Also, best friend has been asked to lunch by a friend of H's. This also odd because it has never happened before. H has lost all his informants who would tell him of my every move and I even within the last week "unfriended" his 1 of 3 remaining friends on Facebook so H wouldn't even know how I am doing at all. She accepted the invitation knowing that this is probably a ploy to pump her for information. She knows to answer everything with, "She's doing great!". Saw OW at stop sign yesterday morning in her car and looked at her the entire time, while she looked down to her lap. Cowardly, IMHO. You sleep with my H, the least you can do is look at me??? After that, OW and H didn't go to lunch together which is REALLY rare. She was also 45 minutes late for work after just having had a meeting with management on Friday about 78 tardies just in 2009. Cracks me up because she knows as well as everyone else that layoffs are coming. Laughable if she thinks H makes enough money to support her sorry as*!
