Hey BJ,

Your making some small progress, so that is good. It's nice just to see some forward movement..

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What a pain in the a** playing all of these games!


Yep...

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D really does bring out the worst in some people.


No doubt. It is tough to realize, it's all about the money at this point, and hard to separate that from what we 'thought' our stbx's where. Very tough. But, you have to approach it from what is in your interest now, and I know you are.

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As for myself, all it does for me is strengthen my resolve to get stronger and better.


That is the most important thing, in my opinion, it will help with the kids, the financial devastation, how you approach things going forward, and ultimately how you wind up after.

You are doing well my friend, don't forget that! Keep that attitude no matter what is thrown your way.

Good to hear from you again!


M: 41
STBXW: 41
D: 9
Bomb: 4/26/09

On board the D train now..

"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."