A self observation - lately - the last couple of weeks, my feelings of anger and resentment at my wife have definitely grown while some of my other feelings have subsided. While I still have the compassion and longing for her, I just feel more and more anger every day. I guess like the stages of the mid life crisis that are referenced earlier in this thread, there are probably stages we go thru as well.
Another thing that just crept into my head last night was the approach of Valentine's day. If I follow my 180 - then I am totally ignoring it from our perspective.
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010
