It was my own test for her. To see if she could really do what she said she could do. She can't take them full time and they hate living over @ grandpa's house.
2 weekends ago, she tells me my son wants to see me and can I take the kids for the weekend. I told her I will just take my son for the weekend and take my lilo girl the next. She was mad she didn't get her way. And try and blame me for not loving my daughter enough to take her also. I just brushed it off. Sunday comes along and he is begging to stay with me and keeps saying"tomrrow ok daddy?" So I tell her that I'm taking him for one more night and to come and pick him up on monday.
Monday rolls by, she's there he is laying on the couch waking up from his nap. Tears in his eyes looking up to her. He didn't want to leave, I go to him and wipe his tears away and said I will take him this week. After she leaves I said I hope you see what I saw with him. She reply's yes I did.
This past week she's was being nice to me, goofy text messages, went to a wedding and she tried to talk with me.being nice. Something is up. I have noticed everytime she is nice she is abou to screw me over. And she did.
She had dropped off the my lilo girl friday night and I told her I need her to pick up both the kids sunday @ 2. I had plans of watch the big game for us MN folks(yes I know we lost). She says okie dokie.
Sunday rolls along and an hour before pick up time, she texts me I don't have a sitter next week not picking up the kids. I told her that's her problem. Not mine. Find plan B. It goes back and fourth her shutting off her phone so I can't get a hold of her. I'm super pissed off because this isn't the first time. And said I had it.
I took her off my insurance, and told her I'm filling for custody of my kids and her getting served with child support.
She replies back there is no point of living because I'm ruining her life! Wtf! I told her I'm not sorry for her and she choose him over my kids and me and a family. So leave us alone. She said she never choose him over the kids. And then I asked where are you @ then? He is sitting right next to you while I'm with the kids again so what are you doing?
She calls me selfish, ruining her life. She is afraid because she knows its a good chance I will get my kids. I don't care anymore. She expects me to be all nice and get walked all over again forget that.
Sorry long post had to let it out.
I still want her back. How do I even keep fighting when things keep getting worst? Now looking for a lawyer.
Me:27 W:24 S:2 D:9 months M:3 years Together for 8 years Bombed : 6/11/09 Moved out: 6/27/09 Found out about her affair 9/7/09 (she started her's at 6/25/09) Begged n plead 7/25/09 started DB 8/17/09