That makes sense Pearl. It's just frustrating b/c I am around during the wk this week (we are both gone this weekend), and not sure of my travel schedule yet next. Whenever I do re-contact, even if next wk, should I say I have some things to discuss (vs. just friendly dinner)? Does that make it seem more like I am standing my ground? I would like to have a decent civil dinner too...could do both. But yes, I'm annoyed b/c he's done this to me MAny times during our separation, saying 'what's your schedule like' and then never contacts me again...so I feel like if you say dinner would work one night, then FOLLOW-through and tell me which night (after I'd already given you a few options). It's just plain rude. Argh.
He might not want to see me at all...but after ove a year of separation, can't he at least be civil? No, i know that's not how WAH's act. Is it guilt? Don't want to see you hurting?
