mb28, I am so sorry you had to see that for yourself. (((mb28))) You are obviously in control of yourself right now and I you keep yourself in check at the time. OldPilot is right, go back and read your own posts, sit down and think about what you want.
If the OW is married then this is going to be bad for her too upon discovery, personally I believe her husband has a right to know also. Upon discovery your H and OW will be in quite a mess. Your H will be dealing with an upset, betrayed H on the other side and most likely will end it. Who knows, I would get advice from a L, again you need to protect you and the kids first, then search your feelings about what you want to do. Can you forgive him and work on the M or not.
Stay here in this thread, you will get more responses than anywhere else.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
