Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Thanks Lotus. I was close to getting her point and I realize now how I what I posted sounded pathetic. Still going to wait till tomorrow, there is pressure for her in agreeing to a night at a hotel...we've had enough of that lately. Tonight has been peaceful. She has been very friendly, came home a little earlier than usual, did not seem to get upset tonight when she asked the girls what they wanted to do after dinner and they said they wanted to play one of their favorite rough house games with dad. In fact, I am so calm and at peace that i didn't leave the house like I had planned...didn't go for a walk and didn't go for a drive. Why, just because I didn't feel like it.

W also is looking at ski resort accommodations for the entire family for a 3-day trip next month. She has been sharing with me what she has found and likes.