Sandi, are you around, or anyone else feel free to chime in.
A while ago you wondered if there was anything that could be done to 'shock WAW out of this mess'. I'm wondering if maybe there is.
Each time W has asked the kids to come over they have said no. Last night each of the kids got the 'want to come over' text again to which they replied No. I have told them about the A and their resolve is stronger than ever.
When I confronted W last week and told her I knew about the A I also said that WE wouldn't be her friends while it continued. She replied mistakenly that I don't speak for the kids. Her impression is that the kids are cool with things.
I'm thinking that this may be a real shock to her system (and bear in mind it has to fit in 160 char TM):
"Do you not get that noone wants to see you while you are committing adultery. It's you journey for you alone. Stop contacting the kids, they have no interest in you ATM"
So my questions are:
1. Will it Shock 2. Should I send it - am I making things worse 3. If so When - As in when I know she's with OM or not 4. Do I get a 2x4 for just being stupid
H: 44 W: 42 Married: 23 years Bomb: 16/07/2009 PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010 Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010