Well just a quick update. Completed my first financial 4 way meeting with my attorney, my W and her attorney. Didn't get as many things resolved as I wanted but made some headway nevertheless. Presently working to prepare for the appraiser my W and her attorney hired- he finally called (belatedly) last week to schedule an appointment with me for this week. What a pain in the a** playing all of these games! D really does bring out the worst in some people. As for myself, all it does for me is strengthen my resolve to get stronger and better. As always, I appreciate everyone's thoughts and prayers for me and my family as you all are in mine. I'll continue to pop in when I can to check in with you all. Take care.

BJ

M: 41
W: 39
S: 11
S: 10
D: 4
1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09
EA began: 2/14/09
EA discovered: 3/1/09
I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself
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