So my W and I got into a fight - the trivial kind over nothing building into deeper arguments. I had about 7 reasons I wasn't beig a nice guy. I was about to acknowledge that I wasn't fair or polite and that I understood her reaction That was when she said that she couldn't handle hearing my concerns and reasons for being testy/angry/frustrated. She said I was judging her.
Does this sound familiar? She came to me to talk it over/criticise me/whatever before I had all my thoughts together. Anyhow - I'm rambling...venting maybe.
