Forward, no, XW never did try to come back and I don't have any idea if she is seeing anyone or what she is doing. I have zero contact with her and do not to ever communicate with her on anything. I have moved on and have someone else in my life. I closed that chapter in my life. I only offer advice, people do not have to take it, and I realize that sometimes people get mad at me over what I say. Everyone must do what they think is best, but I think if folks would be honest with themselves, they would see that things are the way they are and won't change..... I do realize many won't and I think its truly sad, I mean you have people who sit and wait for years and are on so many kinds of medication for depression and what not. No way would I let anyone put me in that type of shape, but that's just me. many seek answers, but most likely will never get them and if they do, it won't make sense to them.