dear TTA, I just wanted to say I think you are incredibly strong and doing so well in this very scary situation. I am right there with you and feel your pain - we are not alone. I too may meet H later this wk or next, and dealig w the same papers issue. Just remember your worth and what he is doing right now. Sound like you have a good support system?
I read Mars and Venus starting over on the plane home to CA last month right after I got papers from H. It mad me cry at first but then later stronger...there is a lot of truth to this and lessons sometimes we learn too late, I feel.
I've given my H several books and he hasnt bothered to read one. What kind of man is it that bolts when the going gets rough? One person posted above that yes, he/they are taking the easy way out...you and I both deserve men that are willing to work through the tough stuff to make your M stronger.
I will say a special prayer for you tonite. When/if you do see H tomorrow, just know that all of us DB's are right there with you...just envision us on your shoulder!
