My weekend was good one for the most part. Had a great day with the kids on Sunday coupled with the NFL championship games.
On the W front things continue to be bizarre. I am a daily cell phone snooper and although it can have it's pitfalls it is always illuminating and this weekend was no exception.
You were spot on with your analysis about the OM situation and the likelihood that it will increase rather than decrease upon her departure from our home. She is jumping head first into OM2 with remarkable speed. The W was on the phone with OM2 for three hours on Friday night (til 1:30 AM) and they exchanged 20+ text messages. The text exchange reads like a Jr. High school flirt session. I didn't check her phone on Sunday but I did this morning and three more hours of texting from 8-11pm (82 in total).
What did I gleam from this? Well the W initially made dinner reservations for the two them at a very expensive ($100/plate) restaurant in Bel Air for this coming Sat. This however apparently was to long of wait as she later asked him if he would like to have dinner at her new apartment on Friday. This guy must be pinching himself on how he got so lucky, no effort needed on his part. It must be like playing tee ball.
The remarkable thing is my W doesn't have a job and no prospects, blew thru $34,000.00 in less than 90 days (oct.-dec) now has a monthly rent of $1,800.00+, monthly nanny bills will be $1,400.00, car payment $225/month and she informed me today that she will likely cash out her other 401k as she is out of coin. She desperately needs her head examined.
Today is our twins birthday (3 years old). My W asked me if I wanted to go in on a gift with her. I wanted to tell her that she has already given them the gift of a broken home a gift that keeps on giving the rest of their lives. I decided against that comment.
I'm truly more concerned about her mental health than anything else. All this stuff doesn't really anger me (save for the damage this D is going to do the kids)her decision making is off the charts bad and it is a 180 from who she use to be. Plus if she is really this eff'd up I have to be worried about my kids in her new environment. She doesn't offically move in to her apartment until Wednesday and she is already having a pajama party. She has no real clue who this guy is. You can't make this stuff up. Also, she is still in contact with OM1 (it appears to be slowing however) who is in the midwest, she has plans to travel to see him over the Presidents weekend.
MHL,
What shenanigans can I likely expect over the next few weeks/months based on what seems to be a fairly similiar sitch to yours?
M48/W47 M15/T22 S3 D3 In House Separation 10/06/09 W files for D 10/16/09 OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA) OM2 in mix early Jan. W moved out 1/26/10 In Mediation (Settlement in prep)
