Thanks Kara. I was VERY tempted to post the message, but I guess I took the high road. It's disappointing to know the D will happen, but there were no guarantees on saving the M when we started this DB'g... only that we'd emerge as stronger people who learned something about ourselves, past mistakes and what not to do in the future.

I got a check in the mail from H today. First payment in months. Lil' bit of guilt perhaps? Who knows, but I'll deposit it promptly! smile