I think the majority of women know when they aren't acting like themselves when their hormones are out of whack and at times even when they are struggling in their WAW fog. I said at times, mind you.

The sad thing with so many of us is that we continue to live in that state until it becomes the norm. Once it becomes normal for us...then we aren't as quick to change it.

So, if she shows signs of regretting her behavior, I'd say that she still recognizes that it's not right.....so that's good. I don't know how to get her to see a doctor. I wished I did. The truth is that the H is usually not the one a WAW will listen to about seeing a doctor about hormone problems.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!