Also - do I mention again the we don't have it that bad. She admits we are good friends and very compatible and work well together. It is trust, communication, and her not feeling anything for me that are the current roadblocks.
I would say not to bring it up any more.
I tell you what I think of when I read some of the posts from men here on the board. I think of my favorite pair of houseshoes. They've had a lot of wear & tear and sometimes I think I should get new ones. I've had them a long time, but I'm just not ready to throw them out. After all, they are very comfortable. I know I can rely on them to not hurt me. However, I don't wear them out dancing! Get the point?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
