Asked D to speak to MIL today to thank her for the birthday stuff. She got cut off on my mobile twice so MIL called the house to speak to her. They must have spoken for about 10 minutes. That was good.
I asked D if she wanted to speak to W again (as she didn't get to speak to her on Saturday night) and she said no. I asked her why and she said she wants to forget about her ... that was a bit of a shock.
Considering writing or speaking, face to face, to W and asking her to leave D alone and explaining why. I'm worried a little about D and I'm worried that W thinks she can have a relationship with D - the birthday card she sent her had 'All my love on it' - even I didn't put that and I'm her dad! It just felt a bit OTT. Anyway, it's just a thought running through my head at the moment so not sure. The other half of me just wants to let things go on as they are - stay in NC and just ignore her. Tell her nothing.
Don't know.
Off down to the city 100 miles from here on Thursday or Friday to check out property for rent. Still desperate to get out of here.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"