H is apartment hunting today

[trytryagain]

that's just it, i don't understand what his rush is. he told me today (via email) that he was sorry if i felt rushed but that he felt like he had explained his feelings to me and was taking his time and not making impulsive decisions. we celebrated our 2nd anniversary just over 3 months ago, and it was a wonderful, happy ocassion where we both went out of our way to do thoughtful things for one another. and now, 3 months later, he's ready to file a separation agreement, after him thinking about things "for a while." i know for a fact that he knows exactly how much i care and that D is the LAST thing i want.

i've tried to let him know that i'm just not following in his thinking at the same pace so even though it may not feel rushed to him, it feels that way to me.