a sense of humor helps a bit. I'm re-reading my thread for nuggets as Gnosis suggested. I'm gonna write down some boundaries. I've done the the GAL stuff several times as per recommended coming home late. Maybe that isn't the strategy at this time. Also gonna scroll thru Dobson again for nuggets. AND Please keep sending nuggets my way. I CAN"T tell you how much i appreciate all of you taking an interest in my situation!